Mistakes Were Made

Large red inflatable balloon behind an old storefront window that has bars on the window. The words "Mistakes Were Made" are painted on the balloon and the balloon is shaped like a blimp. It is hung behind a backdrop of vivid blue tarps. The window is framed in layered white posterboard clouds.
Mistakes Were Made installed in the Window Box at Box13 Artspace, 2022
Mistakes Were Made installed in the Window Box at Box13 Artspace, 2022

The phrase, Mistakes Were Made, is regarded as the king of non-apologies for a reason. It is defined as, “a passive-evasive way of acknowledging error while distancing the speaker from responsibility for it.” Public figures such as politicians, CEOs, celebrities and influencers apologize using careful language and linguistic techniques such as passive voice, nominalization, and shifting blame, while inserting caveats and qualifiers to effectively disassociate themselves from the main point of contention.

Ultimately, these rote public apologies appear to be largely performative, expedient smokescreens for ulterior motives. These swift gestures of regret made for mass consumption fall short of addressing larger issues or creating actionable solutions. Summed up best in author Shaka Senghor’s words, “You can’t fix the things that you are unwilling to acknowledge.” However, people still demand to see the show and judge how worthy or unworthy someone is of forgiveness.